HOW TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS IN LIFE
"IF YOU DON'T TAKE A DECISION FROM YOUR OWN WILL OR DON'T FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT THAN THE NATURE WILL TAKE THE DECISION AND GIVE YOU THE THING ACCORDING TO ITS OWN WILL THAT'S WHAT WE CALLED DESTINY "
YOU BECOME WHATEVER YOU BECOME JUST BECAUSE OF YOUR DECISIONS . YOUR DECISION COMES FROM THE DESIRES AND YOUR DESIRES DIVIDES INTO TWO PARTS WHICH IS GIVEN AS BELOW :-
- STABLE DESIRES
- UNSTABLE DESIRES
1. STABLE DESIRES:- THOSE DESIRES WHICH COME FROM INFINITY. DECISIONS MAKING ON BASIS OF THOSE DESIRES WHICH ARISES FROM THE SOUL . IT DOESN'T CHANGE FROM MANY YEARS IT COMES FROM YEARS BY YEARS. DESIRES OF DOING SOMETHING BUT NOT TO BECOMING SOMETHING . STABLE DESIRE JUDGE FROM THE BASIC NATURE OF A BEING. SO TRY TO JUDGE YOUR BASIC NATURE FIRST. CHOOSE YOUR CAREER, RELATIONSHIP LINES WHICH IS SUITS FROM YOUR BASIC NATURE. THESE DECISION WILL ALWAYS RIGHT DECISION. YOUR DESIRE ALWAYS KEEP STABLE. LONG TERM DECISION ON THE BASIS OF OTHER THAN UNSTABLE DESIRES AS GIVEN BELOW.
2. UNSTABLE DESIRES:-DESIRE THAT WILL CHANGE AFTER SOMETIMES . DECISION MAKING ON THOSE DESIRES WHICH ARISES FROM MONEY , PLACE , POWER , PEOPLE AND HABITS . AS IN
a. MONEY DESIRES IS NOT STABLE DESIRE WHEN WE MAKE A DECISION ON MONEY BASIS. IT WILL GET WRONG IT CAN BE GOOD FOR TEMPORARY BASIS BUT SOMETIMES IT WILL NOT GIVE FULLY SATISFACTION TO THE PERSON . SO DON'T MAKE LONG TERM DECISION ON THE BASIS OF MONEY FACTOR. AS IN IF YOU CHOOSE YOUR JOB ACCORDING TO GOOD PACKAGE BUT NOT ACCORDING TO YOUR SATISFACTION. THAN YOU WILL NOT DO THAT JOB AS LONG RUN SO TIME WILL GONE WASTE.
b. PLACE DESIRE WILL SATISFY AFTER SOMETIMES SO WE CANT MAKE LONG TERM DECISION ON THE BASIS OF PLACE DESIRE. AS IN IF SOME ONE GET THE JOB IN NEW YORK CITY BUT THE WORK WILL NOT ACCORDING TO ITS INTEREST THAN FOR THE FEW PERIODS YOU WILL GET SATISFY AFTER SOME TIME THE PLACE WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BORE. SO DON'T DECIDES ACCORDING ON THE BASIS PLACE
c. POWER MAKES PERSON UNCONTROLLABLE SOMETIMES IT MAKES VERY DESTRUCTIVE DECISION THAT WILL NOT PROFITABLE. PERSON SHOULD NOT MAKE THE DECISIONS ON THE BASIS OF POWER. AS IN IF YOU ARE IN THE PM POST IF YOU FEEL POWER IT WILL MAKE YOU BLIND THAN YOU CAN MAKE BAD DECISION SO DONT MAKE DESCISION ON THE BASIS OF POWER. BE INTELLECTUAL WITH POWER
d. PEOPLE MAKES INFLUENCE TO AN INDIVIDUAL IT CAN BE SAY AS SHEEP WALK PERSON SHOULD NOT MAKE LONG TERM DECISION ON THE BASIS OF PEOPLE. AS IN IF YOUR COLLEAGUE OR YOUR FRIEND DOING AN MBA THAN IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU WILL ALSO DO MBA . SO DON'T MAKE ANY KIND OF DECISION ON THE BASIS OF PEOPLE.
e.DON'T MAKE DECISION ON HABITS. SOMETIMES HABITS ARE UNCHANGEABLE HABITS CAN BE GOOD OR BAD . SO WE SHOULD NOT MAKE ANY DECISION ON THE BASIS OF HABITS. IT CAN BE UNPROFITABLE SOMETIME.
GOOD DECISIONS SAVES MONEY AND TIME AND CREATES GROWTH . SO DON'T GET AFFECTED FORM THE ABOVE FIVE ELEMENTS. AND MAKE DECISION FROM THE STABLE DESIRE.
